Improving Your Pick Up Ability

The Fashion of the Pickup Artist Pt.2

(continued from part 1)

I've tried peacocking myself. I did this maybe a couple times when I heard that other guys were doing it, just to see if it worked.

When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.

Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.

I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred when I was in my workout clothes, or I was wearing something really basic - like jeans and a tanktop.

At the same time, I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.

This make me think... that maybe this is not on how much the clothes cost or how flashy they are...

Maybe there's something else aside from that.

Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage, or balance these two things.

First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.

So if you look like you got dressed with the intention of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.

You DON'T have to look like a pick up artist.

To dress modestly and not put too much thought into it avails much.

However, you need to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.

This comes back to self-expression.

You already have a sense of what kind of guy you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.

Don't change that.

Instead, improve it, with these simple tweaks.

Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.

Next is to make sure that your clothes are clean, wrinkle free and reasonably updated.  A woman will not worry about bringing you around her friends.

Lastly, make sure that your garments are well-fitted, in other words, they EMPHASIZE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.

Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.

Put on a pants that make your legs look long and thin.

Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.

Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a nice haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks great and take it all the way.

One other thing...

Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."

I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one.