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works for you

I think that works for you because you are a women and dh is a man
(well duhh.) I think Jeff would be taking a huge risk in stopping
all requests for sex. I can almost guarantee that she will not
initiate. The only thing that is going to make her "come around" is
for her to think that Jeff is getting it somewhere else. I bet she
thinks she has him now...so why bother.

I'm not suggesting that Jeff have an affair...'cause I certainly am
not. But they need to talk frankly about their situation before it
gets to that point. She needs to realize that there is a lot at
stake for her and she had better start seeing this as her problem,
too instead of just his problem. She obviously doesn't feel like she
needs to worry right now. She is just too sure of Jeff. In most
relationships, that is a good thing...here, probably not.