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Confidence/Guys/Looks

Yes, confidence makes a person look more beautiful inside and outside.. and I'm not talking about these people who act over confident because they lack the self-esteem.. anyhow.. I started out that way.. very low self-esteem and very shy.. I'm still shy to a point, but I have a Karaoke Business which helped me gain not only self- esteem, but also the confidence I needed to run the show properly.. I mean who wants to go see a person doing Karaoke who says "next" ""next".. .and so on... I strive from the applaus I get when I sing.. and what I've learned is that it really DOESN'T matter how you look (I'm quite a bit overweight and always saw that as a hang up but not anymore)... that it DOES matter how you give yourself... and I think everybody could gain some self-esteem by doing something they love and do well and reaping the benefits of that.

On the other side, I have met some guys who are so set on thin, that they are literally rude to me... which anymore I can take well... most of the time they really have nothing for me anyway.. I'm either rude right back in those cases, or I smile at them and say "Oh, that's nice" .. I actually made a couple of friends that way...lol.

but.. .you can't win'em all, and who would want to.