Commitment with husband
I'm sorry it seems that you have been hurt in your life by men, but there are nice ones out there that DO care for relationships and that have been hurt by the women in their life... I have had many male friends who were that way. I'm not as young as you might think I am. I'm 35 and I share my view with plenty of others. There are just as many men who think that women are relationship shy as there are women who think men are. If you read good books, you might want to read one that's called "He's scared she's scared" and you might find something that will help YOU built a good relationship. It is just that book that made me quit doing what you are doing..running away from relationships, all the while thinking that it's the other party who's at fault. We are all so easy to blame others for their faults.. it's just soo much easier than to look within our own self. I have learned the hard way that I was the one with just as many committment problems as the guys... I think you might find the book very educational. You seem to be the kind of woman reading the "date" book... alas "Do not call the man, let him call you!" or "Don't tell him you love him"... Men have feelings too. Some women have less feelings then men... are you one of those who say "All men are assholes?" Well they're not and they have just as many feelings as we are, only they have a different way of showing them. Ever read "Men are from Mars Women are from Venus"? You can't use all of it, but OHHHH it speaks the truth in a lot of respects. Learn, even if you consider yourself old and wise.. you might not be as old and wise as you think.- Posted by Tombomby on 14/05/2008.
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